frilly_lizard writes

I have certain "radar" for what I seek described as follows:
1. Lips- kissable-
2. Bum- can I wrap my hands nicely on butt?
3. Intelligence- Big turn on
4. Personality- enjoy their idiosyncracies
5. Arms- Hugging purposes only
6. Hands and fingers- Imagination required!
7. If I find a woman with ALL these things all rolled together then I am in heaven!!!! Yummo

stella101 writes

hang on ... I left something out... oh yes, MONEY

stella101 writes

money... money... MONEY!

vivalife writes

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sappho55 writes

Intelligence, generosity, empathy, red hair and a light dusting of freckles. And the whole pacage needs to be tied up with a great big ribbon of fun!

Buttonbee writes

I agree with bubbleology, it is a combination of the personality, all is taking in account, I like positivity and it's essential a good sense of humour, it is rather important to be able to laugh this days, things are not as complicated as we make them out to be, a person that is rational able to talk things out, something that completely draw me in is the eyes and very kissable lips, hmmm...ok next, I am getting mischievous thoughts right now.

lucky66 writes

Women who possess beautiful spirits draw me in. The ones whose hearts are so generous you wonder why they don't burst. If when they speak there's depth, energy and a hint of huskiness...they may well have me for life. The intelligent heart, the intelligent mind and body that moves with mine. The woman who not only knows herself but can see me...I love this dream girl...

Justus013 writes

Passion, feeling things passionately and doing things passionately. I want someone who experiences things with passion, and people who have the courage of their convictions. This is infinitely more attractive than looks alone. Mind you, I am not for a second that looks are not important, of course they are but once I take in the looks, their passion is what makes them considerably more attractive to me.

sneakers32 writes

Like other responses, I believe it's definitely a vibe thing.

I'm most attracted to the someone dances...that really pulls me in!!! Not the moves, but the joy involved. Most women are so entirely themselves when they dance, it's impossible to ignore the sensory excitement that comes with this form of 'vibe'.

I've almost always fallen completely in love with someone this way!! Weird.. haha.

naturegirl61 writes

Nothing primarily physical really, It just seems to happen with one look. At least, thats all it took for me. Then gradually I became aware of how beautiful she is. Yep, I'm in love alright.

qi-tah writes

Goodness, only 7% find intellegence attractive? I can certainly understand the "whole package" deal, but i find intellectual compatibility to be essential in a lover. For me, someone smart wil win over someone gorgeous any day of the week.

pinkimint writes

its an energy thing, an aura thing, its how you feel when you're near her; its how she speaks and how she listens and its how you feel when your eyes meet and your skins touch. its how she moves and how she looks and how she makes you feel when she's not there, its in her mind and in her heart, its how much of yourself that you're willing to share. xox

BillieBabe writes

Ears! also personality and having a good head on their shoulders is important to. Im a little shellow and picky at times.

Azira writes

The biggest problem is I found "the one" - all of the above, the "WOW" factor, the eyes, the kissable lips, the fact that they're more gorgeous the more I got to know them, regardless of the fact that she is stunningly gorgeous, but we suffered the "poor timing" syndrome and it has never fully come to a head...
Finding what is attractive in a potential partner now has to compete with "the perfect woman" and I find it only has to be one of the above just to get the ball rolling, and it all flows from there.

WolfSpirit writes

The ability to guffaw

Lush72 writes

For me, I know if I am attracted to someone from just talking to them for a little while. Eyes & smile will get me in, but for me it's all about the "WOW" factor. If I am sitting talking to someone and start to think "WOW....." then that is a sign of attraction for me. Strange I know. Its an experience thing and hard to explain.

No one is wrong, we all have our own experiences.

Cheers

leo6 writes

hollyoaks, you got that perfect!!!! It's definately a very mysterious thing... Have you girls ever noticed that you can have a thing with the most gorgeous girl and then there's no real attraction? and then you can meet a very good lookin person with that it, and your heart skips a beat! Or you meet someone at first there's no attraction but the better you get to know them the more you want!
I heard once that we seem to get attracted to people with qualities that we have but not yet grown, like each person you encounter can be a learning lesson if we look and think deeper about it???????

blue_fish writes

I totally agree with bubbleology....what she said!

hollyoaks writes

Funny isn't it..... I mean, we all think eyes, or voice or looks. But on the Sofa you get to know peoples hearts and that draws you in so that the physical becomes unimportant. The feelings you pick up from conversation without being distracted, that seems to create something deeper?

leo6 writes

For me it's the sensuality, intense look, like you just know when you look in her eyes....
And when you kiss you get deep butterfly feelings, the passion... someone who is deep inside, looks aren't really important. Because you can meet someone who's really beautiful in the inside and the more you get to know them, the more beautiful they get with getting to know them more and more!

zenteapot writes

I suppose i notice whether they are a sensitive person, that is important to me, and then style can come into as a visual cue because that has to do with expressiveness and how far they are conforming to society. If they do those things the way i like, i usually find them attractive- its no use, like,dissembling their physical components- but i do remmember when women with slight mustaches drove me wild!

gentlespirit writes

It has to be her eyes and she has to have that awsome butch look and attitude.Then its her soul and heart they have to be kind and an ability to listen is a bonus.

frilly_lizard writes

What attracts me? hmmmmmm
Has to be the "KISS" factor.
If she is a good kisser and has yummy lips when you can't stop kissing :)
and beautiful eyes, I have a weakness for beautiful eyes.
My biggest turn on is intelligence, I like a woman who can hold her own in a conversation about anything

MckenziesBeacon writes

I have to say its an aura. The two women I've truely loved in my life - it hasn't been a physical feature, or anything they've said - its just been this intensely positive feeling I got when I was around them. Its like an internal magnet; it draws people in. And not just lovers, but friends also. They were both people that everyone just loved to be around.

bubbleology writes

It's a combination of their personality, their style, sense of humour and eyes ... and the way I would word it, is their 'vibe'!!
Every person gives off an energy which I think reflects all of the above.. and that's what I'm attracted to!